Top ten donts

* Assume since they accepted a date it gurantees you at least a kiss. * Lunge towards them-it sets then up to be defensive. * Lead with an open mouth - nobody like to kiss a fish. * Lead your tongue - not many people enjoy kissing reptiles. * Mash or grind faces - it may look good in the movies, bit is rather uncomfortable in real life. * Move too fast - this isn't a race * Force your tongue like a wedge between their lips-teeth If they are going to accept your tongue they will part their lips, don't push luck forcing it. * Quick darting tongue movements...AVOID! * Shove your tongue to the back of their thoat, No need to check wgat they had for lunch or do atonsil exam. * Slobber - you should not need a towel to clean up after yourself. * And don't ever assume a kiss , even a passionate one, means they are willing to go further.